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Why Do We Value How We Look So Highly?

July 25, 2008

Women are like snow flakes. No two are the same. We are as different on the outside as we are on the inside. With that being said, why do we care so much about what others think of us?

Most women ask the inevitable question when they have an outfit on. How does this look Men are afraid to answer in the event of hurting our feelings. Women say to be honest and that they just want an opinion, but when the answer comes out, we wish they would have kept it to themselves. We then get upset and say that our feeling were hurt. How confusing is this for men?

Truth being told, women want to look beautiful on the outside as well as on the inside. We see pictures, commercials, and advertisements everyday showing thin and beautiful women in skimpy outfits. Then a feeling of longing to be that way enters. A women feels the jealous twinge when she see someone who looks better than her or has something that she wants but does not have.

It seems that we are not happy with how we are and are out to constantly change to be what we think is better. Our insecurities run rapid within ourselves and we vow to do anything and everything in our power to look the way we think we should.

The saying beauty is in the eyes of the beholder is very powerful. It takes a very strong individual to have the inner securities to know that they are beautiful. Displaying kindness, generosity, and compassion makes us appear beautiful to others. As is goes for the opposite end of the spectrum.

When we are criticizing, mean, and nasty, we appear so ugly. Only when you have true inner beauty then can you outwardly express beauty. When you are comfortable with who you are then you can stand up straighter, have confidence in yourself, and let your inner beauty flow.

We try everyday to be someone others want us to be. Be it by purchasing the latest fashion or even changing our attitude. We want so much to please others and make them happy that we lose sight of who we really are. If we want to be truly loved by others, we need to comfortable in our own skin and love who we are on the inside as much as we love what we look like in a mirror.

Chris Jensen is a contributing Author of Jetfly Blog. For more related articles and reviews visit Jetfly Fashion & Style Blog now. Also, for the Best up-to-date related Online Products, check out Jetfly Women’s Handbags & Bags Shop for Todays Current Online Deals.

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