Signs Of A Cheating Wife
December 31, 2007
Some signs of a cheating wife are quite obvious, if you’ll allow yourself to see them. If you happen to see receipts in the trash for condoms or lingerie, or perhaps see the actual items, but they are never used during the times you are intimate with your wife, that’s a pretty strong sign that she’s got something going on.
One of the more common signs of a cheating wife is when she suddenly starts being very secretive. If she engages in hushed phone calls or tries to only converse on the phone in private, or if you notice she spends a lot of time online but the browsing history on your computer has been erased, there is cause to be suspicious. There is of course the possibility that she’s trying to plan a surprise party for you or something like that, so don′t jump to conclusions too quickly. It is also possible that she’s satisfying some fantasy online that she would never explore in the real world, but such behavior still suggests some dissatisfaction with your relationship.
Changes in sexual behavior can also be signs of a cheating wife. Decreased desire for sex could be due to any number of factors, including stress or fatigue, but if your wife suddenly starts avoiding having sex, it is a cause for concern. Some women who are cheating will actually seek out sex with their spouses more often. This might be out of guilt or as a deliberate ploy to keep the husband from suspecting her extracurricular activities. Increased sex drive can also result from other things like hormonal changes, so it is best not to take that in itself as a sign of infidelity.
Beyond her level of sexual desire, one thing to look for is a change in how she does certain things during sex and intimate moments. Does she kiss differently? Does she want certain sexual positions or activities that she never expressed an interest in before? If so, this could simply suggest an interest stimulated by a magazine article or perhaps a tip from one of her friends, but sudden changes in sexual technique can definitely be signs that she’s learning new tricks from a new partner.
It can be easy to miss the signs of a cheating wife if she’s spending a lot of time with a female friend. But when your wife is out with her friend all the time, including late at night and on the weekends, there is cause to wonder what’s up. Your wife’s friend may be her alibi for slipping out to see another man, or there’s also the possibility that the female friend is the person she’s cheating on you with.
If you do suspect that your wife is cheating on you, it is important to try to keep your cool and carefully go through the necessary steps to find out for sure what is happening and then decide what you really want to happen. The anger and hurt feelings can lead you to do things in haste that you might regret later. So before you do anything rash, I recommend that you first carefully gather evidence.
There are several ways to do this, and there are quite a number of online resources to help you do it yourself. The thing you have to realize is that you are emotionally involved in this, and chances are you are not as skilled as a professional investigator, so if you are going to collect your own evidence, you need a system that is simple to implement and allows you to get the evidence you need without risking getting caught investigating her. After all, if it turns out that she is not cheating, and she finds out that you were investigating her, that could sour the relationship just as easily as if she were having an affair - only in this case, you are the “bad guy” - the jealous, insecure, “nut-job″ - and you will be the one your mutual friends turn against. So, choose carefully how you are going to go about things.
When you are completely sure that she’s been cheating and you have proof, only then should you confront her. You also need to figure out what it is you want to try to do - rebuild the relationship or split up. It is critical that you keep your anger under control because violence or destructive behavior can result in legal trouble that will cause far more damage to your life than her infidelity did.
By keeping your anger and hurt under control you can make sure to carefully assess whether the signs of a cheating wife that you have observed are truly indicators of her being unfaithful, or if there’s some other explanation. If it turns out that she has been cheating, you can then consider what to do next.
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