Are you guilty of one or more of these “crimes” in your marriage? The crime of indifference, parallel living, failure to communicate or killing passion are crimes we often commit in our marriage.
All is not lost, with a little effort and changes in thinking; you won’t be spending time in the “Crimes […]
There are a variety of different marriage “groups” out there. As you discover your group, you will be better able to determine if it’s the group you want to be in for the rest of your life, or if some adjustments are in order.
Convenience Marriage
When you got married, you were genuinely in love with […]
It’s easy to fall into a routine that allows your family and marriage to run smoothly. Routines are good and help you to meet the many demands on your life. However, it’s important that your “routine” includes intimate time with your spouse.
Intimate time doesn’t just equate to sex, it equates to intimate discussions […]
My number one job with couples is helping them find the motivation to really go to work on their relationships. Once I find the key to what invigorates them and makes them want to grow the rest is easy! Here’s 9 reasons that spur many people on.
Affairs Hurt People
Most of us know someone who’s been […]
We never think that our relationship will experience the tragedy of an affair. No one ever expects it, but it happens to so many nonetheless. Often, both partners want to put the relationship back together again. Here’s the blueprint for recovery.
The First Thing To Do Is To Go To A Couple’s Therapist.
Yes, I am biased […]
I love to chuckle at all the spam headlines from the financial industry. They promise fortunes to the unwary. So, today’s headline is a bit tongue in cheek. However, not entirely so.
I see so many people taking their relationships for granted, investing little or nothing in them, and then being surprised when they get […]
What is a Hero? And what is a Coach? How can a man be sure he’s found a woman he can trust to coach him in the direction that is right for him?
And how does he take advantage of her special abilities to help him achieve his dreams?
In sports, an athlete needs a coach […]
Making a marriage last takes work and many couples simply just grow apart. This issue is very common in couples that marry young, and it is easy to understand. At age eighteen or twenty, you are certainly a very different person than you will be at age 30.
When you are young, your interests […]
Five years into his second marriage, Jim was so frustrated with the haphazard way Cathy seemed to handle her finances that he was seriously considering divorce. Cathy wouldn’t consider joint counseling, so he hired me to help him sort through the issues and make a decision.
Jim & Cathy were both well-paid professionals, and had […]
You may believe that never arguing with each other will make your relationship strong. What usually happens though, is because you’re both human you have different needs and wants. If you never even notice, let alone discuss (argue about?) your different needs and wants you may not even realize the damage you’re doing to […]
